Most people are sexual beings. It is in human nature to become aroused and enjoy all things sexual. Nevertheless, too many people tend to avoid this aspect of human nature and, by doing so, miss out on all of the exciting feelings and emotions that come with it. Fortunately, you have this post to help you out with ways to embrace your sexuality and enjoy your and your partner’s body.
Get To Know Your Body
Before anything else, you must make an active effort to explore your own body. You should look in the mirror and observe any and all issues that might have made you uncomfortable in the past. For example, do you think you are too fat or too thin? Do you have birthmarks or scars that have made it difficult for you to become intimate with others? Take a long look at yourself and try to understand who you are. This is arguably the most challenging part, but once you have accepted yourself, you can move on to the more exciting aspects of human sexuality, such as…
Use Sex Toys
Sex toys are arguably the best things you can use to not only explore your body but enjoy the ride at the same time! Sex toys are a great way to boost your sexuality because they provide ways to pleasure yourself that you may never have experienced before. The best part is that there are options for men and women, and they all come in sizes and prices that fit almost everybody’s needs. All you have to do is visit a reputable sex toy shop and look around. If you feel self-conscious, you can always shop online where it is more private, both in terms of finding the toy you want to use and the packaging they use to deliver it. If you are still on the fence about purchasing a topiary because you don’t know what to buy, the following are commonly touted as the most popular options for beginners:
- Rabbit vibrator
- Pocket rocket
- Body massager
Explore Who You Are By Watching Pornography
Some people don’t like the idea of watching porn, as they consider it to be a shameful act. However, this couldn’t be further from the truth. Watching porn can open up new avenues of sexual excitement that you may never have even considered. For starters, it can put you in the mood almost immediately, which can be a boon, especially if you are in a relationship with a deficient level of sexual tension. Furthermore, it can teach you new tricks and moves that you might want to try out in the bedroom. However, this step comes with a caveat. It is undoubtedly a great way to increase your sexual appetite, but you need to be careful with porn and the truth about sex. Some positions are designed to look good on camera but are not great for ordinary people. Furthermore, if you watch these productions too much, you may feel inadequate due to the type of involved people and their “proportions.” As with anything in life, you should practice moderation.
Film Yourself In The Act!
This option is great for couples looking to spice up their sex lives, but you can also film a solo session if that’s your bag. By filming yourself enjoying sex, you break a taboo and make it feel like you are both pornstars acting in a movie. As with the previous step, this also comes with some caveats:
- You must inform others if you are filming with them and be consensual.
- Don’t become addicted to it so that you can only perform when there is a camera on you.
- Never share your videos with others if you or your partner are uncomfortable.
- Make sure you choose a good position so that you can both enjoy the film afterward!
Become More Erotic With A Partner
Using all of the previous tips will help you become more erotic with your partner and discover your sexuality. However, there are other things you could do if you want to push the boundaries. For example, you could both opt for an open relationship. This means that you and your partner allow you to have sex with others. If you are not comfortable sleeping with others, you can always engage in a threesome and mix it up to let both people get the most satisfaction from the experience.
Step Outside Of Your Comfort Zone
Essentially, all of the tips in this post aim to remove you from your comfort zone. This is because, without experience, you cannot honestly know yourself. If you don’t try new things, you’ll never know what you enjoy, and you’ll also never know what you don’t like, which is equally important.
By utilizing some of the tips in this post, you will discover new aspects of yourself that you might never have known existed. However, you must always take care and always ask for a partner’s consent if you want to try new things out with each other.